Kendra Joy

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Novi, Northville, Plymouth, MI Community

A Little Holiday Reminder: Christmas Is More Than the Gifts 🎄

Every holiday season, the pressure sneaks in.

More gifts.
More stuff.
More spending.

A few years ago, I realized I didn’t want Christmas to feel stressful or excessive. I wanted it to feel calm, thoughtful, and still magical ✨

So I set a simple rule and stuck to it.

How I Do Gifts 🎁

For each kid, I do:

  • Something they want

  • Something they need

  • Something they wear

  • Something they read

  • One Santa gift

  • Stocking stuffers

That’s it.

No overflowing piles.
No panic shopping.
No debt hangover in January 😅

And honestly? It’s more than enough.

Less Stuff, Less Stress 💛

When there aren’t a million presents, kids actually slow down and enjoy what they have. Things don’t get lost in the chaos. They notice. They appreciate.

And for me? I get to breathe.

I’m not trying to compete with anyone else’s version of Christmas. I’m creating one that works for us.

Christmas Isn’t About Proving Anything ✨

It’s not about how many gifts are under the tree or how Instagram-worthy it looks.

It’s about:

  • Cozy mornings ☕

  • Traditions 🎄

  • Time together

  • Feeling loved and safe

Those things don’t come from a shopping cart.

If You’re Feeling the Pressure…

Here’s your reminder: it’s okay to do less.

Less spending.
Less overbuying.
Less comparison.

More intention.
More peace.
More joy 💫

Because Christmas isn’t about the presents — it’s about the memories. And those don’t have a price tag ❤️

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